Sent this off to Bengaluru last month with a good friend who was visiting. It is for my newest nephew, son of cousin D.
Down memory lane as I worked this blanket. I must've been 5 or 6 years old. We lived in a small house in Shimoga. It is a bit of a blur now, but seemed like a lot was happening in Chickmagalur, my maternal grand mother's place. One of my aunts/chikkamma (mother's younger sister) was expecting a baby. Our grandfather passed away and 8 or 9 days later chikkamma gave birth to a baby boy, my cousin D. Many years ago on this day, Sept 8th! After the first three months (ಬಾಣಂತನ) at grandma's house , chikkamma came to Shimoga with the baby and I remember how thrilled we were when we learnt that he was to stay with us. He was with us till he was 6-7 yrs old. He became the fifth child of the house, even to this day our parents are "Shimoga Amma and Appaji" to not only him, but his little sister who came along a few years later. It is like all six children ended up with two sets of parents! How wonderful when families expand like that. I had no sibling rivalry with my two older sisters and an older brother, but D more than made up for it :)
With a large extended family on both parent's side, Chikkamma was one of the very few working woman we saw growing up. She was a role model to all of us sisters and cousins. The old adage, “If you want something done, give it to the busiest person you know" always reminds me of her. Organizing house work to suit her work schedule, she always managed to get everything done and how! As soon as she returned from work, she would pick up the broom to spruce up the house and then get to cooking, all with the same energy and still had the enthusiasm to entertain guests, which by the way, was all the time. There was always someone or some family visiting her place or staying in the house with some work or the other in the big city Bengaluru.
Chikkamma had a way of complimenting that boosted a little girl's self esteem like none other. Just the way she looked at you made you feel like you were the best thing the ever existed on this earth, such genuine affection. All memories of special occasions include all of us sisters wearing sarees from her collection. We have learnt a great deal from her, big things, little things, many things . . . how to wear a saree, the many uses of safety pins, great books to read, latest fashion etc. Timely advise has almost always come from her and chikkappaji in many of life's important decisions.
Chikkamma and Chikkappaji would visit us almost every weekend from Bengaluru. I remember vividly the feeling of anticipation as we heard the 6:00 AM train siren and eagerly waited for the sound of auto rickshaw stopping in front of the house. Those happy moments are unforgettable: Amma making plans for what to cook, all of us relishing the food together, sharing household chores, going shopping with chikkamma and of course playing with the baby. That baby now has a baby, who I think resembles D a lot. I infer that from a few less-than-a-minute long videos and some pictures that I have seen over the course of last few months. I cannot wait to meet baby S and someday tell him stories about his father. But for now, this blanket will have to do. Welcome to our world Siddartha. As it turns out, he is visiting Shimoga today and Amma and Appaji are getting to see their newest grandchild.
Sept 20th 2013 update! D sent this picture. It made for one super happy ಅತ್ತೆ (aunt) :)